Ask me the thing you'd never say out loud.

Staying hard. Lasting. Going numb. Why it works alone but not with her. This is the private place where you get the real answer — the actual mechanism, no shame, no judgment. Ask me what's going on.

Start with whatever's true. The thing most men come in with:

I'm hard alone but not with her I finish faster than I want to I've gone numb — I feel nothing I freeze up and get in my head